I find it interesting we live in a society where someone gets teased for not having had sex. For so many it is just a way to have pleasure. I had one argue for a while about how it’s just nature and that I should lighten up. That girls like me took it too seriously. I am one who looks at Craigs list and see guys who have their “virgin card” and am looking to give it up to a stranger. Guys at 18-21 feeling like they’re needing to get it out of the way instead of the act being something loving and something you think about as a positive memory in the future.
I remember talking to one 27 year old who wanted to loose it before his next relationship so the stigma was gone. Talked for quite a while, but I wouldn’t do it with him, so the conversation stopped. I, too, know the feeling though. At 27 is when I started to feel left out and is why I pushed myself into the dating world and pretty much dated whomever would have me so I could no longer claim to be a virgin as well.
Was your first time with someone you cared about? A one-night stand? Anyone with the morning of when most people loose it, morning after prom?